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They want like $800 for the survey.
And my name will be on the deed/title.
I think I left out some info. I read that it it possible to roll in the closing costs and such & told him to see if it's possible to do it in our situation. It's just that he isn't a good communicator and didn't tell me every little bit of detail, it's all stressing the heck out of him.

I work for the local government and have to sort out all the headaches that come from not getting a survey. so I don't mean to sound preechy, I just want to be sure you are thinking this through.

$800 is a very small price to pay for all the info you will get on a survey. It tells you where your lot starts and ends, how your building(s) are on the property, if the neighbors fence or shed is on your property, and it is the only way to legally prove many things about your property.

Example: A fella came in the other day, he said the neighbor just moved his shed off his land (and boy was he mad!) I asked if he had a survey to show where his neighbor had trespassed. "NO! I Know where I live!"
Me: Well good, show me on this map.
Him: Right here, this 500 feet from the corner to here (pointing at the map)
Me: Sir, according to the plat your lot is only 250 feet wide.
Him: That ain't right, I built that shed on the side of my lot.
Me: No sir, you built a shed on your neighbors lot.
Him: He told me that but my realtor said...
Me: You know what a person said will never hold up in court against documentation, right?
Him: yeah, I know, but my realtor told me....

I was sad to have to explain to him that since his neighbor gave him warning to move it or lose it nad he didn't respond cause his realtor said, his $2000 shed with $5000 worth of snow machines and tools was now the neighbors property.

Another man came in because he was getting fined $500 + $100 a day till he moves his fence. It's blocking a public easement that runs along his west property line. His realtor, the fence guy, the guy from the power company and the neighbor told him he could build his fence there. He checked his plat (which you can get from your realtor, the state recorders office or county platting office) and it didn't show the easement. The problem here was that the plat was recorded in 1983 and then the state recorded a historic trail easement along his property boundary in 1986. The current owner of record at the time was notified and signed off on it. It didn't come up in teh title search (although it should have) but it would have shown on the survey.

I could go on, but I don't need to, just please, please get the survey.

And I echo everything I read above about communication and not splitting hairs or bills. If you are together, you are together 100%.
 
I know $800 is a nausea-inducing amount to add right now, but I have to second Michelle-- you really, really need the survey. Realtors DO NOT ALWAYS KNOW what they are talking about-- it's not that they're trying to defraud anybody, they just tend to go with whatever "seems right" to them. I'm in my third house, and we had to delay getting chickens and goats for a year because I insisted on saving up the money for a survey before we did anything.

It saved my bacon! Turns out there's a zoning exception that puts my garage 10 feet from the property line-- all that flat, grassy area we were planning to use as a run? BELONGS TO MY NEIGHBORS.
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Lovely people and unlikely to steal my coop, but I certainly can't put it on their land! They didn't know either, but if they sell the place the new owner could have made life very difficult for me (farm critters have to be housed 25 feet from the property line).

On the uphill side, my even lovelier 90-year-old neighbors who never had a survey done discovered that about 8 x 100 feet of their driveway is in our yard. We wrote an easement to protect them, but we had to defy our lawyer, who wanted us to ask them for reimbursement. They've been here for 60 years, and they never knew. Please get the survey done! You don't want to be at the mercy of neighbors if the lines aren't where it seems like they should be.

Good luck to you!
 
Yep. I agree.

I have a neighbor several houses "down-the-street" who lost a Carport because "No Survey" was done at the time of the transaction.

(But their neighbor had a survey done...and ended up with the ground and the carport that sat on it.)

Get the Survey. $800 ain't nuthin over 30 years.

Peace of Mind: Priceless.
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It's all money he is stressing over, never anything else, always money. But his debt is his own, he is a mommas boy whos mother never taught him how to live as an adult. Slowly over time I'm making him grow some -- and act like a grown man, not a little kid who can't do nothing. A lazy gamer is always a lazy gamer...lol. I'ma tomboy, I do what I need to get what I want.

There's already fencing in and nothing is far from the house itself. If I want a survey, I'll get it done when I have $, until then, no survey. I won't be adding/building anything, sheep, chickens & dogs on the land, they will pass 'survey lines' either way, so who cares. There is something that looks like an easement, but got no $ to plant anything there, don't even want to, so it's whatever. You don't have to smoosh everything in all at once, it's like buying a house and fixing it ALL before you move in. Not needed and unless you are a billionare, it ain't happening.
 
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I know this probably won't set well with you, but if you were one of my kids I'd be doing my best to talk you out of this deal. I'm sorry, but it doesn't sound like either one of you are ready for the committment of buying a house together let alone get married.
 
I agree with the last two posts.
I will tell you something you don’t want to hear. Marry first, and then buy a house together.
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It's a very bad idea for anyone to get in a such a big financial commitment without having a legal bind with the "other half".
 
Personally I don't want to ever get married, don't want to pay for it, don't want to be there or deal with all that stress. If we do get married it will be us meeting at a judges office to sign papers and be on our way.
And yes, I don't like where y'all are going. So I'm done with this thread.
 
An Attorney can do all the paperwork on selling a house and is a hell of alot less in cost. They know where and who to use. I have bought land and can tell you you do not need to spend that much on closing costs from predatory lenders. Being married does look better to a lender though. Being married to someone is more than co-habitating.
 
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I don't think two people have to be married to be in a committed lifelong relationship but your statement above shows you have no idea how to be in a relationship whether you're married or not. You don't want to be there or deal with all that stress? That's going to be there whether you're married or not.
 
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