Sorry to hear that. Is there anything more that can be done for your mom? Try to get your dad to the doctor. It's so hard when the parent/child roles get reversed and we have to start telling them what to do. My hubs has been in Arizona since Sat helping out his sis whose husband has been struggling with pneumonia since October. He was in and out of hospitals, home for a while, but got really weak so back in hospital, on to rehab, get a fever, back to hospital. He is 82 and has COPD from smoking for the first half of his life. The docs thought maybe it wasn't pneumonia, but some other problem, Finally did a culture to discover two separate strains, so is now on two different antibiotics. He's back at rehab center now, but has lost much strength and cannot walk without help. My SIL is very petite so he has to regain strength before he can come home. We are hoping this is not the beginning of the end for him, but recovery will be a chore. He is tired and cranky and now starting to have chest pains.
So keep bugging your dad to see the doctor. Maybe you can use a little guilt trip on him- something to the effect of "I can't take care of mom when I'm worrying about you too!" He may not do it for himself, but might for others. Good luck!
So keep bugging your dad to see the doctor. Maybe you can use a little guilt trip on him- something to the effect of "I can't take care of mom when I'm worrying about you too!" He may not do it for himself, but might for others. Good luck!
