One suggestion for all
Rather than ask if you can come to a sellers home, offer to meet them at a public place. They might be worried you will appear at their home later to rob them, etc.
I usually offer to meet people in front of Costco or McDonalds etc. They know right were those places are, yesterday I had to go to a freebee pick up from craigslist, it was way deep in a canyon on a one car wide road. Boy did I wish he had met me in a public place!
But the free beadboard and chair rail was worth it!