My friends with girls complain about this problem, alot. Having boys makes things easier. I mostly blame the boneheaded parents. On the local news here a middle school girl and her mother were complaining because she was sent home because her shirt was too provocative...it said "JUICY" across the chest. Both were arguing because this was a brand name, it was no different than having "GAP" across your chest. IDIOTS!!!! But notice where this started....the school sent her home. The schools here are much stricter than when I was in junior high and high school. Any one remember the 'two fingers tequila" shirts or caps with marijuana leaves on them??? My schools' policy was basically if you could make it to school without getting arrested for indecency, then you could stay.
Oh, and I can remember going to church and every skirt was a good six inches above the knee....that's what my mom wore and so did all the other ladies.