Sorry, got busy outside. I'm not sure where all it was but there are people on both sides of the fence on this one. Whenever I do pick up my roos I hold and talk to them until they are calm but I don't pick them up just to hold them. I do do that with my hens though. I've heard both sides and keeping them in check makes since to me. Maybe it's a man/rooster thing. I feel the same about kids. I think too many people are friends instead of parents to their kids and they turn out obnoxious and mean like roos.
I've only had one mean roo and he was grown when I got him. First time he came at the grand kids he was gone.
I think people should do whatever fits the personality of themselves and their chickens.
Nothing snarky about you response.