I believe it's commonly understood that the Buyers will meet the Sellers wherever the Sellers wish to meet. That is, the Seller can give their home address for the Buyer to meet there, or the Seller can choose to meet in a public place like a Starbucks or what-have-you.
Seller going to meet buyer is ONLY when Seller wishes to do so by negotiation. Any expectation that Seller should bend over backward for Buyer would be outside the norm.
If the guy wants you to drive 2 hours round-trip then (if you choose), offer to do that for an additional $25 delivery fee. It costs gas and time and you certainly don't have to do anything you don't want to do.