OMG, I read this thread in it's entirety in one sitting--and here it is the last page (so far) and it is not done YET???? I had so hoped to be rewarded with the 'completed' pictures.
I agree with Joe. This 'Do it yourself' has gone on quite long enough. I'm not sure it makes sense for him to make you do it all, since he already has all the skills and then some. You should make him do all the canning next summer, or do all the cleaning, or whatever it is that you can whip through and he would have to agonizingly struggle through bit by bit.
That being said, my husband was a jack of every 'masculine' trade, I never hammered a nail in, he did all kinds of wonderful projects for our home/homestead, and then, dad-blast him, he up and died on me. I sorely regret not knowing how to do anything along the 'guy thing' lines. I don't know how, and wish I didn't HAVE to know how. I was spoiled for 30 years...