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[superchemicalgirl]

@superchemicalgirl - the summer super vortex is supposed to hit here tonight tho yesterday we already broke a record low, woo hoo

Hot and sticky this morning. Already in the 60's with rain moving in later then it's ................................................splat.

What was your record low?

It's already "hot and sticky" here (although I think Ron could give a good rebuttal that 71 isn't hot). I've got 2 more hive bodies ready to put on the hives so I'm about to go out and do an inspection before it gets much more gross. Still have to clean the chicken coop (haven't seen the guinea in 2 weeks so I'm guessing it's safe now). Guessing it's going to be a sweaty, nasty day full of dirty chores!

 

[ozexpat]

Good morning friends.

What a wonderful day.

I hope you all have an excellent weekend.

Our roof in the Philippines is complete

The next typhoon is due this week. It should pass a few hundred km north of us but dump another foot or so of rain.

It will be fun to see how it holds up.

 

[Peep_Show]

Wow! I cannot even fathom a foot of rain. That's more than we get all year!

That being said, it is our monsoon season in NM, which means that there's a promise but no guarantee of rain. The skies darken up nicely in the afternoon and we get thunder, but often the rain hits another part of the valley and state and we're just kind of the dry bridesmaid.

The apple crop is holding up nicely, though, and some are starting to get their flush of color. DH is looking forward to fresh cider..... Patience is a virtue, especially when waiting on fruit.

 

[superchemicalgirl]

Those apples look fantastic. We planted 3 apple trees this year and they're leafing out quite nicely. I really don't understand what I'm supposed to do with them, maintenance wise.

 

[ronott1]

Those apples look fantastic. We planted 3 apple trees this year and they're leafing out quite nicely. I really don't understand what I'm supposed to do with them, maintenance wise.

Find a pruning guide. It is important to prune them correctly when the tree is young.

 

[Peep_Show]

Apples are pretty low maintenance. I put feed stakes in the ground in the spring and make sure they get adequate water and just let them be. In January is when I do pruning (crossed branches, water sprouts). Remember when pruning that the fruit comes out on second year wood. Some folks spray for insects and fungus, but I like a more holistic apple and so buy trees that are resistant to blights and whatnot.

With young saplings the main danger, I've found, is rabbits! They LOVE tender apple bark, so twiglets get a coating of chicken wire until they get some proper bark on them. Wetched, wetched, wotten wabbits.

 

[Bunnylady]

*sniff* You don't wuv me.



But it's true; sometimes it's hard to decide whether Bambi or Thumper is the bigger nuisance to a gardener.

 

[subhanalah]

I got this this morning in an email. Thought you guys would appreciate it.

9 Common Traits Of Happy People (That They Don’t Talk About)
It’s the term thrown around more often than any other term when people are asked what they are looking for in life. A loving partner, a fun high-paying job and endless world travel are also amongst some of the most common answers, however all of these are preference-based means to the one ultimate end, which is happiness. Being so sought-after, I thought I’d comprise a list of common traits that seem to be found in happy people -and I’m talking about the genuinely happy people, and not just those who appear to be so on the surface.

By compiling this list I’m not suggesting that these are the only keys to happiness, I’m simply shedding light on some common characteristics I’ve come to find.

1. Love Themselves For Who They Are
On the surface this may sound incredibly egotistical, but by it I simply mean that they are truly comfortable in their own shoes. They accept and embrace themselves physically, they maintain their true character traits regardless of whether or not they receive approval and they work to make the best of the human experience they are living -rather than wallow in what others would define as weaknesses or shortcomings.

2. See Relationships As An Extension To, Rather Than The Basis Of The Human Experience
Relationships, whether friendly, familial or romantic, are certainly one of the greatest parts of the human experience. However, far too many of us let their presence or absence, and even more so the value we attribute to them dictate our overall happiness in life. I’ve found that genuinely happy people tend to find complete contentment within themselves, and see all relationships as the awesome extension to their self-content. It’s often when we are not looking for others to fill a particular void, or to make us feel a certain way, that most of the truest and most-valuable relationships are formed.

3. Embrace Change
Life is a constant lesson and happy people tend to be well-aware of that. Not only are they always open to change, but they truly listen to suggestions, respect and consider all opinions and take criticism constructively rather than offensively.

4. Celebrate Rather Than Compare Themselves To The Accomplishments Of Others
Jealousy is a killer, and as Gary Allan once said,

“You can be the moon and still be jealous of the stars.”

We are all capable of accomplishing anything in this life and are the only ones that are going to find the drive within ourselves to do it. Rather than observe and compare to those who have accomplished, the truly happy tend to celebrate it and use it as motivation to accomplish things within their own lives.

5. Never Dwell In Being A Victim
We’ve all been the so-called ‘victim’ to several things in life. Whether it be an unexpected break-up, getting fired from a job, or even something as serious as the recipient of domestic abuse. Truly happy people tend to be those who choose not to dwell in it. They choose to let the victimization strengthen them, rather than wear it as a badge of weakness or as the thing that makes them consistently worthy of receiving sympathy.

6. They Live In The Present
As fun as reminiscing about the past or fantasizing about the future can be, nothing will ever be done in anything but the present and happy people tend to realize that. Not only do they realize it, but they tend to use it as motivation to make the most of it. In addition to being motivating, presence can also come in handy for truly appreciating those moments of relaxation, allowing yourself to be truly in them, rather than projecting future concerns into them.

7. Trust That Everything Happens For A Reason
This can very easily be paired with the choice to not be a victim, but happy people tend to trust the process and existence of everything in their life. They know that nothing is ever too big to handle and choose to embrace what life is currently throwing at them rather than cowering at the sight of it.

8. They Don’t Let Money Dictate Their Lives
Nobody is denying that in this world right now we all need money to exist, and as a result many of us spend the bulk of our lives doing things that help us earn it. What I’ve found to differentiate happy people is that they don’t let money be the ultimate dictator in their life. They still make sensible choices within their means, but they never let money:

A) prevent them from pursuing a so-called “risky” passion,

B) be the factor that is blamed for why their life is so miserable,

C) complain about how little they have.

There are creative ways to do everything in this world, and seeing money as only being possible to make in the standard ways is the most crippling thing to that creativity.

9. Look Within For Solutions
One of the most powerful realizations a genuinely happy person will often operate based on is “change starts within.” The empowerment that comes as a result of not only realizing this but even more so in using it as the backbone to everything in life can be quite remarkable. There are thousands of books, mantras, techniques and practices out there that can all help us to find solutions to so many things in life, but they all require one thing to truly be serviceable: the consciousness to support them.

 

[subhanalah]

CC, glad you got one of them. Is their social structure one that would cause them to vacate your place as a hunting ground?
What about in those old west movies where they would hang dead bodies to the entrance to towns to show that they have a zero tolerance policy for thieves and murderers?

 

[ChickenCanoe]

I wouldn't trust that policy to the safety of these rare birds. My wife has a customer that lives 3 miles from us and saw a mink chasing a rabbit in their yard - midday.