I make decisions for (wear a collar, whether dinner will be real meat or processed that night) and tailor behavior to my desires (ie. Potty training) for my dog all the time. While some people do see that as slavery and abusive, I have never felt that way about it myself, and I'm guessing by my dog's behavior that she doesn't either. I can see how the idea of dying animals might rub some the wrong way because some see it as a theme of bending animals to human desires, but to call it abusive or near abuse seems like a stretch to me by far. If an owner made a dog go through a dying process and the dog was terrified, then it certainly would be distasteful, but so is forcing an obviously afraid dog into a tub to me. The dogs I've seen show every sign of enjoying the attention though, and it is also putting words into a dog's mouth, to me, to say that a wagging, happy dog is unhappy. I guess I never got the extreme upset over dyed animals, more so because the reasons given (harsh chemicals, animal feeling shame, etc.) aren't something that seems to be accurate. But then, I never got the huge upset over vibrantly dyed people hair either!