Who do you go to cry on the shoulder of?

[hennyannie]

I have found in my adult life if I try to open up to someone I get things like "That's not as bad as what happened to me" or "what if you were like me" or "It could be worse"
I didn't go to these people to hear things like this, I went to have someone listen. I am very slowly learning to keep the mouth closed, Unless I am praying to someone I know is listening.
I sure do miss the times when I had a best friend on the phone who would spend all night listening to my rant, and call the next night for her turn.

 

[Fierlin1182]

Things were sure a lot simpler when we were younger. Even for me, that still holds true.

 

[Nicola]

Whoever will listen to me complaining about what's wrong

they don't have to say anything they just have to listen LOL

 

[zzGypsy]

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He sounds amazing! Keep ahold of that guy, it sounds like he could be there to support you through times to come.

un-named: Pretty much how I feel. I suppose it depends on what's been happening. On a few occasions, if someone's been good to me, I might be able to share some of my worries with them.

I've only been home a week after a terrible break up and after just my second day home he had me laughing. He really is a great guy and I have no intention of losing him as a friend.

sounds like the kind of guy I'd wanna marry...

oh, wait, I already did that. that's what my hubby is like too.

 

[Razadia]

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I've only been home a week after a terrible break up and after just my second day home he had me laughing. He really is a great guy and I have no intention of losing him as a friend.

sounds like the kind of guy I'd wanna marry...

oh, wait, I already did that. that's what my hubby is like too.

I need advise on this very same.

 

[hdowden]

i really dont have anyone

all people around here want to do is call me stupid when i know i'm right. i even get called stupid for being in love with,apperently, the wrong guy and its so hard to get over...he wasnt exactly the nicest person all those that seen the way he treated me says he treated me like sh*t and when i think about it its all true but i still love him and its hard to get over someone you love very much (on top of that we have 2 kids together). i tried with all my heart to try and work things out but it seemed like he didnt want to

 

[redhen]

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[hdowden]

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i never had that best friend growing up (granted i'm only 24) and still really dont till this day

 

[WooingWyandotte]

When all else fails, I cry on God's shoulder. He listens when others don't. His mercy is boundless as an ocean, and I can feel that he cares for me with all His heart.

 

[Rosaleen]

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On more than one occasion I have gone out to the barn, wrapped my arms around my horse's neck and had a good cry over the years. More so now since my husband is on life support and in and out of consciousness due to ALS. I try not to burden him with my stress knowing how much he is struggling with his own pain.