I HATE house shopping with hubby *rips hair out* we can do anything together, but buying a house is a totally different story. He doesn't care at all about the house, it could be a shack for all he cares. He just cares about the land. I on the other hand, care about the land but also the house! We have two little ones and I'll be darned if hes moving us into a SHACK that we have to fix up!!! I don't mind having to do some work on a house, but he also needs to understand that we need to be able to move in and maybe not do anything for awhile due to the fact we will have little ones. Really what we need is a million freakin' dollars so I get a gorgeous house and he gets an crap loada land. UGH!!!!!!!!!
I love him but gosh darn it we are going to be living in seperate houses soon!
I told him that I want to work on this houses renovations with him and I don't want his dad helping. He got all defensive. Ok, his dad put in a lot of flooring (and we have gaps along the walls, gaps where it meets new flooring and did I mention it's 3 different colors? UGH! Now we get to fix that. His dad is a 90%, and it pisses me off!!! And not to mention, it's our house now. His dad can't come to help us for the life of him without -telling- us what to do, which I listen to him but he doesn't understand that we get the end say in it. I don't want that added stress after having a baby, trying to move, trying to sell and having to deal with DH and his dad fighting over everything (which they do!).
Sorry I just had to rant. And rip my hair out!

I told him that I want to work on this houses renovations with him and I don't want his dad helping. He got all defensive. Ok, his dad put in a lot of flooring (and we have gaps along the walls, gaps where it meets new flooring and did I mention it's 3 different colors? UGH! Now we get to fix that. His dad is a 90%, and it pisses me off!!! And not to mention, it's our house now. His dad can't come to help us for the life of him without -telling- us what to do, which I listen to him but he doesn't understand that we get the end say in it. I don't want that added stress after having a baby, trying to move, trying to sell and having to deal with DH and his dad fighting over everything (which they do!).
Sorry I just had to rant. And rip my hair out!