We have solved the pecking order dilemma by only having Australorps! Their "pecking order" is punctuated by "Please" and "Thank you."
They're the best! Egg-laying machines and can be a meat bird if you want them to be. Hatchery stock may not have much meat on them, but my APA Aussie rooster is a HEAVY bird.
They're great mothers when they go broody (and they will, but not like a Silkie), kind and docile and sweet... They are a little shy at first, but warm up to you easily, especially when they associate you with food.
And the GREEN SHEEN!
MrsB