@Ribh - my husband grew up in a beach community, and learned to sail as a kid. A few years ago, the sailing bug bit him again. If he'd gotten something like a Sunfish or a Laser, I might have joined him, but noooo, he bought a 49er skiff - if there is a boat that defines "extreme sailing," that's probably it. Seriously, you can't step off the boat with the sails up, because without the crew acting as ballast, it will capsize if there's even a hint of a breeze. I'm no longer quick and limber, can't swim, and get motion sick in a swing - this thing had no appeal for me whatsoever. Hubs hoped he could get our kids to crew for him (you can't sail this one solo; it's designed for about 300 lbs (136 Kg) of crew), but they grew tired of the thing trying to knock/throw them overboard every couple of minutes. Eventually, even Hubby had to admit that it was a more spirited craft than a 50-something geezer could handle. Reluctantly, he sold it - to a
much younger couple. Now he has a Hobie 17, which is designed to be sailed single-handedly, but has space for a crew or two if you're just out for a casual zoom across the lake.