Going to ask her tonight

[al6517]

So where did the OP go ???? did you gal's scare him off ??. Or did the Ole boy get cold feet after listening to us.

I would like to see what he has planned and if she say's yes/no/maybe. Or maybe he is just watching the game on TV eating Nacho's with his feet up on the end table with a hole in his socks, watching while she does chores around the house and cooking

 

[DuckLover2399]

I thought real men cook.

 

[lowry075]

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[al6517]

They do ............ you have no idea how long it took me train the Ole ball and chain to cook real food and it's an ongoing tutorial LOL.

 

[ICallMyselfCherie']

I don't know where the OP went, but . . . I think after 18 years it needs to be done the right way.

What I mean by that is, I think it would be important for it not casual or flippant. When I say this, I'm speaking from being with my boyfriend for, granted, only four years, but having all the insecurities I have being with him for so long without his having considered marriage with me. It could be very, very different with the OP's girlfriend, but just in my situation I know that it would be important for my boyfriend to make a proposal pretty heartfelt and special. I don't mean in an expensive way, at all. I don't care if I got a ring from a gum ball machine and got married by an internet minister, just so long as he made it clear he felt the way about me a man should feel about a woman he's going to marry.

The worst thing that could happen would be if he asked her like, "Well, we've been together 18 years, I think it's time we get married. You can't say no to that, right?"

 

[dadsdeercamp]

I'm working on some dinner and as for the scotsman thing she will be Mrs. Scott Cameron so yep I got a little in me

 

[Highlander]

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Best of luck!

 

[ICallMyselfCherie']

Best of luck to both of you, let us know how it went!!

 

[sourland]

Scott, just slip the ring on her finger - worked for me. Good luck, and we expect an update later.

 

[theoldchick]