So I say "do you want peas or corn?" she says "nether I dont feel good". I say "whats wrong?" she says "I think I'm coming down with the flu." now she is in bed what do I do now?
I'll tell you about the first time my then boyfriend, now husband, told me "I love you".  We were both still in college.  I had some sort of flu/cold/serious ick bug, and had to cancel going to visit him at his college.  He surprises me by showing up at my dorm room, takes me into a hug despite my drool/snot stains and bed hair, hands me a basket full of my then nessecity kit (at the time, Vanilla coke and M & Ms) along with a stuffed animal and kleenex, and babies me with motrin and by sitting with me until I felt well enough to sleep again.  He then told me, "I love you", and pretty much bolted as he was even more shy then versus today.  X)  I still get all warm and fuzzy just thinking about it.  He really let me know that he was in it for the hard times too, and he has more than proven that through the years.
I'm not saying propose to her while she has the flu, but I am saying that showing your love during this time is more appreciated than even the most romantic dinners.  
		
		
	
	
  And, when you do propose when she is feeling better, you both will probably get a kick out of it when you reveal when you were planning on proposing.  XD
The flu has been hitting everyone around here too.