I love to watch the fish in a tank, but I hate having to be the one doing the maintenance on them. Sorry you lost your plants Mare. You had a beautiful setup there.
I hear you on the maintenance, that was/is the beauty of a good, planted tank as if you get things balanced just right there is little more to maintenance than just topping off the water now and then. DS's tank(s) are the biggest pains as his main tank is non-planted (due to a giant pleco who would gladly uproot anything that dared try to grow in there) and then his breeding tank which is stripped bare and requires good attention to keep conditions right. I could sit and watch a nice tank for hours, so relaxing.