Me I'm a biggish gal but I have a wide frame - very wide in the shoulder and hips and a smaller waist. I used to hate my weight and when I was a younger teen I did a bunch fo crazy diets and what not - I am now 22 and even in just a few years the stuff I did 6-7 years ago has screwed me over. I have digestive issues now and I have to take extra vitamins especially those that help regulate metabolism (B vitamins). I battled with acid reflux for awhile and let me tell you - not fun.
Now I tell anyone who wants to go on crazy little diets like purge diets, shakes, jenny craig, etc... Eat what is obviously healthy fresh foods - fruits, veggies, some dairy, red meat, eggs, and bread. Moderation is the key - eating 3 regular meals and 2 small snacks like a fruit or veggie during the day helps to keep your metabolism and digestive system active and keeps you having fresh calories to burn. Laying off alot of junk food is a big thig - sodas as well.. When I dropped regular sodas for diet soda and water - I lost 15 lbs in a month!
Plenty of water! I am an excessive sweater so water is a key ingrediant for me. I agree on 'deprivation complex' when you say 'I CANT HAVE' that makes it 100X more tempting and you're 100X more likely to slip on it. Focus on what you like, whats available, and then worry about what your going to allow yourself to 'splurge' on. Me I'm not a big sweets eater except I get 'tastes' for stuff. Also cutting back on the fast food - but not saying ' I can't have it' just 'I shouldn't have it for lunch, but I can grab something for a small snack' - Me only thing I get from fast food places is vanilla icecream/shakes or sweet tea. I love subway though - omg I would die without being able to eat subway - lol.
Also - obviously exercise. I walk my dogs when its not extremely hot if it is I wait till early morning and late evening and take them walking. I run after a 5 yr old all day, I keep busy alot, and I jump on a trampoline with my daughter most evenings as well
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For particular problem areas like me my stomach is flabby - but hey I had a kid and I @ 9 months I gestational diabetes and had gained 70 lbs on my already 'healthy' frame
- so yeah my belly is a big problem area - but I do stretches, crunches, etc to try and target that area.
From a few months ago - say April I've dropped 2 pant sizes, trimmed down my thighs a bit more, and I don't go by weight because in summer I always gain muscle - so that makes the 'weigh loss' hard to calculate.