My mom always said that I wasn't responsible for anyone other than myself. I'm gonna take her advice on that one, coz I've had it up to HERE with DH!! I made sure I had my uniform clean and gas in my tank for work last night, then got up, packed myself a lunch and took myself to work on time. DH...stays up too long reading, so he sleeps in. Gets up and eats the pizza that I brought home. I tell him that he can have ham (which is pre-sliced in the fridge) and rice-a-roni (which is leftover and therefore pre-cooked) for his lunch. He goes back to the bedroom and reads until he HAS to leave for work. "Honey, could you make my lunch??" Me and in a sweet tone, not nasty or anything: If you'll make my lunch for me tomorrow. Him: "Oh, just forget it, I'm tired of your bull****!" Me (being careful not to go off on him): What bull.....? Him: "Forget it, I just won't eat for lunch, I'll take a nap" I'm sittin here goin I mean, does he not even notice that he should have been fixing his own lunch instead of reading that book??? Why does he think it's BS that he should make his own lunch?? I think it's BS that he thinks I should make my lunch AND his!!!!!! I really, REALLY want to at him, but it'd be a pointless fight. Oh well.... I also happen to know he's wearing his last clean work shirt tonight. Hope he remembers to do his laundry in the morning, coz I sure ain't doin it! Ain't gonna be my problem if he doesn't have a clean shirt tomorrow night!