My kids will do dishes without if I ask them to... they have yet to just do them without being asked. It's my husband who almost never touches them. If I say I can't make a meal because there are no clean dishes, he just gets in the car and we go out
. I don't mind doing the dishes too much, after all, we have a dishwasher. I just wish he would rinse his dishes before leaving them on the counter. Nothing more difficult to get clean than a bowl of dried-on cereal. This and getting him to throw his trash in the trashcan rather than just leaving them on the counter above the trashcan are my two biggest issues with him. I guess that means he's not too awful...

