My kids will do dishes without if I ask them to... they have yet to just do them without being asked.  It's my husband who almost never touches them.  If I say I can't make a meal because there are no clean dishes, he just gets in the car and we go out 
		
		
	
	
		
	 .  I don't mind doing the dishes too much, after all, we have a dishwasher.  I just wish he would rinse his dishes before leaving them on the counter.  Nothing more difficult to get clean than a bowl of dried-on cereal.  This and getting him to throw his trash in the trashcan rather than just leaving them on the counter above the trashcan are my two biggest issues with him.  I guess that means he's not too awful...