Thank you Setter4, and everyone else, you all have great questions, My husband passed away 7 years ago and he was cremated, the cemetery wanted $1500 to bury him in a regular plot, $1200 for a nitch, that is a lot of money to come up with after a sudden death, So I called around and found a cemetery that has a scatter ground, which happened to be the same cemetery his father is at, I took the ashes there, the director took me out to the grounds and I scattered my husband in a very peaceful surrounding, he has a plaque with his picture on it and he name, I know that he would be pleased where he is.