I got that Rhib
If anything I was explaining too shardrach that I felt he was waving a red flag to a bull (too me and possibly others) always mentioning C's negligence and not suggesting that she gets a little more help or doing something to change it.
How he deals with this is totally up too him, isn't sharach. I'm not there and cannot intervene or help.
Someone once told me where I was going wrong in my life, it took a while for me too change and once I did I never looked back but that was my life only.
My wish is for this situation to be dealt with sooner rather than later due to these lives being affected .