In training the idea is to stop *before* they're sore or brainfried
Mind, I know there is a school of thought that says it is okay to push a horse past his limits, so as to vividly see what they are, *when trying it out to decide if you'll buy it*. I don't happen to agree with that school of thought (as I have seen some really, really bad things done in its name...) but I will give you the benefit of the doubt and imagine that perhaps you do subscribe to it.
Even if that is the case, fifteen or twenty minutes of w/t in a roundpen, and being asked to bend and flex, under a strange rider who is doing things in a way different than he's accustomed to, especially when he may perhaps not understand or enjoy the whole "being ridden" thing very well in the first place.... that is a WHOLE BIG LOT to be demanding of a just-started youngster.
You can say what you want about allllll your experience but this sounds like not a good way to start out with any horse, especially not this one. Other horses will eventually come along. I know you're young, but still, what's a few months or six months, if it is the difference between getting the RIGHT horse versus one that will not fit well with you.
JMHO,
Pat

Mind, I know there is a school of thought that says it is okay to push a horse past his limits, so as to vividly see what they are, *when trying it out to decide if you'll buy it*. I don't happen to agree with that school of thought (as I have seen some really, really bad things done in its name...) but I will give you the benefit of the doubt and imagine that perhaps you do subscribe to it.
Even if that is the case, fifteen or twenty minutes of w/t in a roundpen, and being asked to bend and flex, under a strange rider who is doing things in a way different than he's accustomed to, especially when he may perhaps not understand or enjoy the whole "being ridden" thing very well in the first place.... that is a WHOLE BIG LOT to be demanding of a just-started youngster.
You can say what you want about allllll your experience but this sounds like not a good way to start out with any horse, especially not this one. Other horses will eventually come along. I know you're young, but still, what's a few months or six months, if it is the difference between getting the RIGHT horse versus one that will not fit well with you.
JMHO,
Pat