I think that when you are doing research you should always take into consideration other people's opinions and the help that they are offering you. If you always dismiss people and what they are trying to tell you, you are not going to get anywhere in life. No one is ever completely right and that is something that most people do not get. You need the opinions and advice of other people in order to make it in life, if you cannot get along with others or listen to what they are saying you are not going to get anywhere in life.
I know it is hard when people don't communicate in an effective way where it isn't considered being mean or aggressive towards you, but in reality they are just trying to help you out. No one wants to see you fail. Many people who offer advice in here are very familiar and have a lot of years under their belt, I would definitely take their advice and opinions.
When someone speaks to you, you should not be thinking of a way to come back at them. You should be listening to what they say, you don't even have to respond, you just have to listen or read what they say.
This is a place where everyone comes for advice and opinions, it doesn't matter whether or not you like the opinions or advice but making a thread or a comment means that someone is allowed to give their advice or opinions on it.