Don't worry mare, we're all good

I get what you're saying. I spoil my girls, I know I do, but I don't think I go overboard. There's no chandelier in their coop
Funny story, went to pay landlord rent, went with a carton of eggs for him too (he turned down, said he had lots...sigh. Told him stop buying eggs we have more than enough and don't mind sharing lol) he comments that he hopes I'm not like the neighbor lady who sits there and cuddles her chickens.
My shifty eyes answer....well, I handle them so if I have to, they're used to it, but none of them are overly cuddly.
We won't show him pics of the girls perched on my legs. Or tell him about last night where I had sparkles on my arm and noodlehead on my shoulder....
Different people have different perceptions on how things should be done. Doesn't make it right or wrong.

I mean some would probably think I'm wrong cause I don't have misters, wading pools or fans for my girls.