You're welcome. You always think there won't be problems b/c you expect everyone to be civilized when the time comes, but things happen and it's best to be prepared. When they went to put my gma w/ my gpa my dad invited his brother who my gma was estranged from. They expected him to bring his wife, well they brought the entire family, so EVERYONE local was there but me and my brothers. I was ticked b/c it was just supposed to be my dad, his siblings and their spouse. I don't like that kind of thing so I probably wouldn't have gone anyway, but it was still annoying. It was exactly everything my gma didn't want when she said she didn't want any memorial or anything.@apryl29 !
You made such good points here I am sending myself a link to this page so I don’t forget to talk to DH about it! Thank you!
A lady I work with, her brother and his wife got so mean when her mom died. He was the executor while she was the one who had been living w/ and caring for her mom. As soon as the mom died the brother said that she needed to be paying rent to stay there after her mom passed (she never paid rent b/c she was her mom's caregiver and was saving them $$ instead of putting her in a nursing home, so this was a shock). Then the brother wanted to immediately put the condo up for sale even though his siblings needed to find a home and then basically said people are coming to do this, this and this and you stuff needs to be out of the way w/ just a week's notice. She was freaking out b/c she needed to find a place quickly and pack and was still grieving, but all the brother thought about was getting the condo sold asap. They were horrible and now that it's all over she wants nothing to do with him ever again & I don't blame her at all.
BahahahhahaaaSpeaking of donuts,
Saw this yesterday and screengrabbed it for the group :
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Then I saw this on Craigslist and had to grab it too! :
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That title was an EYE CATCHER wasn’t it?!?
The inside of the post said they’d lost 63 pounds but still loved baking.
Several kinds of cake. $2/slice.
and That lady has amazing willpower.