I truly dont understand what is wrong with some of you people. The OP is asking for your understanding not to argue with her. Please stop. Give them a break or stop posting. If you cant say anything nice please dont say anything at all. Thats what my mom used to say. God bless you lickskillet for having to read some of these opinions. I truly hope you dont PM her. She really doesnt need for you to be harassing her let along with the neighbors. Sham on you.