Mother-Hen-Michele
Crowing
Oh my Lord! Have you been married for less than 20 seconds and grew up where there were no women ?A little bit at a time is smart. I keep trying to convince my wife of that.
Do not tell a woman how to do her tasks! Focus on self-improvement, not spouse-improvements!
My spouse can't figure out a laundry hamper, to the point I have actually put one in EVERY room of the house including one in the kitchen/livingroom, but I still pick up his clothes on appliances and floors all over the house, but he insists on telling me how to do things and when. He literally told me as a I brought the ducks in yesterday that "now you need to clean their bed and give them food" (gosh, thanks for the info, I was about to lock them in with their own filth and leave them with nothing to eat. Thank God you were there to guide me. )
That is the same day I picked up a pair of his dirty underwear off the kitchen table and asked him "what is this?" He happily informed me they needed washing. I asked where they should be, he pointed to the washing machine in which I already had a load going which was "not compatible" with his green underwear. I pointed to the laundry hamper that is less than 3ft away and said "no, they go in the hamper".
I swear I thought the livingroom hamper was a temporary measure, like when you are puppy training and you put down a "piddle-pad" in every room and gradually set them up with just one as they figure it out. I don't think this puppy will ever be clean.
Don't tell your spouse that the women on this site do things the better-way that you have been advocating she try... You'll be having your Thanksgiving dinner in the chicken coop.