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When she acts like that, talk to her calmly and if she starts throwing a tantrum put her somewhere she can't hurt herself and walk away.
What do I do when she throws everything.
You will have to be firm with her. I am not sure what parenting technique you are going with, but I will tell you honest when my toddler throws something I smack his hands and tell him no. Be firm. You don't have to scream or be overly mean, just smack the hand and firmly say NO. I will spank his butt if he continues after several hand smacks and being told no. Mine is 3, and he just started with this behavior, so I dunno if I would smack an 18 month old's butt.
Honestly, at 18 months talking and trying to reason with them doesn't work. They haven't developed real reasoning skills at that age.
eta: when mine gets into a full blown tantrum I put him to bed and let him scream/cry it out. If he gets out of the bed I put him back in and tell him firmly to stay in bed. He's not allowed up until he's done screaming/crying. Usually he falls asleep.