Fluffy Butt Acres: Stories of our flock

[Lady Red]

Ok, while we’re supporting each other in Bob’s absence, I just wanted to share I’m feeling an incredible amount of remorse, regret and guilt for not trying harder with Dorothy. I don’t mean the day she got sick; I mean before that. She was laying soft eggs for a long time and I stopped trying to help since it didn’t seem to be working. Could have put her on hormones. Ugh. Poor, poor Dorothy with the lousy genetics, if that was her problem.

You know I want to scold you for this way of thinking. Others have said it better, so I'll just give you hugs

 

[Lady Red]

No. Do not go there. We all do the best we can with the knowledge we have. As @BY Bob is always pointing out to me when I lose a chicken, they are experts @ hiding illness & symptoms & by the time we realise it's serious it's already too late. You did what you could & nobody can expect more. She had a wonderful life with you & we all know that breeding has caused enormous distress in some breeds & there is just nothing to be done about that. It is not our fault. I have resolved to the best of my ability not to perpetuate the horror by knowingly buying birds prone to genetic issues. I did it once. Never again. I lost an entire flock of 12 birds in a matter of days.

Agree and to you

 

[Lady Red]

I agree with this.
And really @micstrachan please don’t go there. You are an amazing chicken mom.
It is so easy to feel guilt but you need to focus on all you have done not what maybe you didn’t do.
She had a lovely chickeny life with you.

I guess I should have just quoted multiple msgs instead of saying how much I agree singularly every time.

 

[Lady Red]

I understand the guilt but there is no guarantee that hormones would have helped either. Then there’s the financial costs too.
She seemed fine then went down rapidly. As Lozzy said hindsight is wonderful .

I’m currently going through the same thing with my beautiful Golden Retriever. She has been licking her paw for years. We, and the vet, thought it was probably arthritis. Now that she has been diagnosed with metastatic cancer I can’t help thinking maybe it started in the bones of her foot. There were all sorts of signs that, looking back, are obvious now. If only we had found it back then.

But “What ifs “ and “if onlys” don’t really help us in the present. We can’t go back and change things. We can only learn and move forward.

Grieve but be kind to yourself too Michelle.

Love you you and your dog. I've heard of others having cancer in the foot too...wonder why that is...

 

[Lady Red]

Today is my birthday and I got to spend it with my family and amazing friends.

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Bob was kind enough to invite us down for a swim and a visit. I had the wonderful pleasure of meeting his daughter, Mary and sweet Eve.

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They surprised me with an ice cream cake and everything!

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All the chooks came by to say hi and beg for treats. Phyllis is ok, she has switched nests but is still sitting. It was a lovely day all around!

Happy Birthday! Looks like a wonderful celebration!
I saw the pics before I read the msg and was very confused... in my not-fully-caffinated mind, I thought "hey...that is a dead ringer for Bob"

I'm so glad you guys are friends IRL, good people deserve good people. You both fit the bill

 

[Lady Red]

No, the hormones are not a guarantee. Chickie had an implant and it bought her about two months, not six or longer. I probably spent over $700.00 trying to save her and in the end, had to have her euthanised. Be kind to yourself.

 

[Lady Red]

Hi everyone, I've been busy the last few days and have missed a lot.

First off I want to express my deepest sympathy to BY BOB over the postal fiasco and the loss of his new chicks. Words do not begin to describe my anger at the post office over what I'm calling negligence.

I'm currently in back to school mode as school starts back up the 13th and as of right now even though covid is rampant in Kentucky virtual is not being offered. So it was lovely this past Saturday to get a notification in the mail that my daughter's shot record is out of date and she can not set foot on school grounds until it is taken care of. Fine simple fix and made a dr appointment for Tuesday. We spent 3 hours there waiting only to finally be told that due to computer systems down state wide they could not pull up her record to see what she needed. They thought she might need 2 boosters, but were not sure. They even told me that it would be safe to give them to her even if she didn't need them but with systems down could not print off a updated copy to give to the school so they chose not to administer the shots. They were supposed to call me by noon the following day and if she needed them could just walk in anytime. I heard nothing Wednesday and started repeatedly calling Thursday only to be told I had to wait until the nurse had time to access the system and they would let me know. They did, 20 minutes before the office closed yesterday, yup she needs the shots come in Monday. No big deal, until 3 this afternoon. My sister who lives in the house and works at the hospital tested positive for covid. We are now in quarantine. Health department is supposed to call Monday to give us official instructions on how long and what to do. I do know one thing though, I can breath a bit on the shot record because regardless thanks to my sister she is not going back when school starts.
If everyone could say a prayer for my sister I would really appreciate it. This hit fast, she was fine last night although tired. It didn't seem out of the ordinary as several in her department are out with it and she has been working overtime the last 2 weeks to cover their shifts. She woke up this morning with a headache, sore throat, nausea and body aches. Suspected strep throat as she is prone to it and that is how it starts with her. By noon though she started running a fever and when she left to get tested was already 102. Her breathing is still good and right now only has minor coughing. As long as her fever stays under control and it does not affect her breathing she can stay home, the minute that changes she and mom are emergency room bound.

Holy cow! That's a ton going on. I hope your sister's case decreases to mild and is contained.

 

[featherhead007]

While I have the clogs…
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I’m usually in flip-flops… It’s just that I killed my last pair accidentally recently.

Those should be made illegal. (Way too gaudy, for your feet)

 

[featherhead007]

Just in case I’m not logged in on Wednesday, Happy Birthday Alexander the Great! Have safe and fun flight.

What a thoughtful gift!

I think that it would be a very thoughtful and entertaining gift. I would love to see just how far her imagination extends!

 

[featherhead007]

Holy cow! That's a ton going on. I hope your sister's case decreases to mild and is contained.

Somebody order a holy cow?