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Wow! I had no idea this would cause such a discussion!
Some of you have raised very valid questions and made very valid comments that had me thinking last night and this morning.
I would not be angry if I didn't know what I know now. I would be disappointed, yes. But not angry at my DH. Thank you NurseNettie for making me think about this.
I realize that my applying there put my DH in a bad position. One that he should not have been put in. Even though he encouraged me to apply, I don't think we thought through the implications of that.
So I am going to call this a learning experience and move on. I am not going to apply anywhere he works. I am going to move on and be disappointed in the fact that I did not get the job, but not be mad at him for doing his job.
Some of you have raised very valid questions and made very valid comments that had me thinking last night and this morning.
I would not be angry if I didn't know what I know now. I would be disappointed, yes. But not angry at my DH. Thank you NurseNettie for making me think about this.
I realize that my applying there put my DH in a bad position. One that he should not have been put in. Even though he encouraged me to apply, I don't think we thought through the implications of that.
So I am going to call this a learning experience and move on. I am not going to apply anywhere he works. I am going to move on and be disappointed in the fact that I did not get the job, but not be mad at him for doing his job.