@Ribh I'm also very scared of surgery and the whole hospital experience. I think there are more us afraid than we think- like fear of flying. It doesn't need to be rational to make you feel very bad. Depending on your personality it may help to look up everything on your intervention, or just ignore it completely and actively engage in other activities that will keep your mind busy

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I suppose you know that already, but once the anesthesia sets in you won't feel a thing. It can happen that anesthesia takes a little time and that's painful but doesn't last. I've had several stays at the hospital, some were horrible, some not so bad, but I'm still really scared so I can maybe understand a little how you're feeling and hope you'll find what allows you to cope through it.
And, you could just stumble upon some really cool doctor- last time I was in the ER the doctor was a George Clooney incarnation

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