You are very smart young lady and although these sorts of conflicts are difficult, its good to learn how to gracefully (as possible) manage them now. Us grown ups (myself included) are inclined to say; this will evaporate when your older and minimize it but to tbh it doesn’t really go away completely. I would say it definitely declines significantly and becomes more hidden but it definitely doesn’t disappear completely. Handling conflicts will be a useful lifelong skill.
My unasked for advice is this: Stay as calm as you possibly can, avoid cursing (its just unnecessary and almost always makes things way, way worse), and choose your words carefully, words may not break bones but they can still hurt.
I have complete faith you will find a way to resolve this as peaceful as is possible.