thank you. affording a lawyer is out of the question. We just voted in a new slate of officers for the union (very good thing - first year in about 20 there was any 'competition' and an actual election (versus the secretary casting a single ballot to elect the slate of candidates because not a single position was contested) I am actually hoping it can turn into a full chapter grievance since so many people are involved. imo, that would be the best outcome.
and, just an fyi: no, I am not on byc during work. I will pop in sometimes during a break. (i.e. 'my time'), and I am using a day today and tomorrow. One of the ways I actually can get her to approve time off: I have enough vaca time built up that I will lose some in the next pay cycle, and, even though there is not supposed to be any 'black-out' periods regarding vaca time, August is very crazy and she won't grant vacation time then - soooo...I essentially forced her to approve a couple days each of these last few weeks - and put in that I would be over the max hours of vaca time otherwise - so she had to approve it - as that alone is a lawsuit. If we go over so many hours (375hrs/50 days), we lose them. It used to be 60 days, and any above that rolled into sick time. twice a year. Now, each pay period they check, and anything over the 50 day you LOSE (i.e. the state takes back!) So, I am taking enough time to stay below that through mid September/after the add/drop period ends - which is also crazy busy.) Since I requested it 6 weeks ahead (of the first week - requested a couple of days per week for each of a few weeks), AND made sure my days requested didn't overlap with more than one other person's in the office AND that I was still working on our extended 'accepted student's days) she really didn't have a choice.
Though she did comment - in person, mind you, not in response to my emailed request - 'What are you taking vacation time for? You never go anywhere." Um, hello - I explained in the request email I would lose the time otherwise...and what is wrong with a staycation???? I REALLY wanted to say "Any extra time away from you is well used time" - but I bit my tongue!!