Exactly Bob.That is so very true. I do worry that in all that taking care of others he is forgetting to take care of himself. He too will need time to mourn.
It would be good if someone was around to take care of him for a change, he must be exhausted. Even just to prepare him a meal would help to get his strength back and a shoulder to lean on.
Even a car needs support for goodness sake, from what I have read from him he is a lovely human being and I really wish I could help.
. You could do with a few of my home cooked meals. Then I would make sure you were laying down in a quietly with all of your electrics switched off
and there would be no arguing about it.

