@bgmathteachNo one should cry before going to work. Pull all of your documentation together. That is the definition of a hostile work place. Perhaps an attorney would be a good choice after you "retire" because of the stress and anxiety of working there.
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Yes eggcellent suggestion, I was going to make it but wasn’t sure of things in the US.
I would say that you have a case for workplace harassment and bullying, and your manager should not be a manager if others are also being intimidated by her.