Looks like some of the trees around here. Plant some sort of bush (not evergreen) around it to break up the wind a bit or run a short section of "holey" fence along the part the wind has pushed the most. Once that gets settled in, the tree will go up some more. That's what the shelter belt does. The bushes are on the outside with the tallest trees (eventually) the deciduous ones in the middle. The winter winds bet broken first by the tiny twigs, then the tree trunks so the fully thick evergreens closest to the house don't get scoured by worst of the winds head on. They're able to insulate the middle during the winter.
View attachment 4231593 Making a corner simply means inner stuff turns first, then each layer getting closer to the "winds" going farther along before turning. Needs must, plant a double type of bush in double rows for each. Both should be deciduous with the one that max height is lower on the outside.
Blackberry, raspberry, siberian pea tree sort of things. Lilac clusters too much to be the outside layer, but could go on the lee side. Deciduous trees for example could be crab apple next with walnut (grows taller) being the inner tree. Then the evergreen: doesn't have to be as tall, but needs to be thick/dense in the individual growth.
Work within what CAN grow and what CAN survive....and what you're ALLOWED to bring in. And if you must, go with fencing panels on short segments with gaps in-between. If you end up doing that, the solid vs chain link vs wire vs stone wall should progress in height and solidness much like the bush/trees do.