Way to go! Stay strong. Keep your cell handy so you can call 911 if needed. Maybe you should find out what he wants and put it outside.Oh he's done! I really think he thought he would call and I would be there to pick up the pieces. 12 years is a long time and I'm sure I'll always care for him in some way. But I've set up boundaries for this new version of a relationship we have. He wanted to come pick stuff up from the house while I'm at work. I flat out said no. The stuff isn't going anywhere so he can wait till the weekend when I'm home. It's my house now. I plan on moving yes but he doesn't live here any more. Things will be done on my terms now.