LOL I like Ruby's idea about the glitter... Toss an open bottle of glitter in the boxes (bags) of stuff, esp if it's clothes. LOL Good idea about the list. My ex gave me a specific list of stuff he wanted. Candles. He wanted candles... Didn't want to see his kids or any photos of them or anything, but he NEEDED those candles. smh.@apryl29 I asked him for a list of what he wants and I'll get things ready. I don't know where he thinks he's putting anything larger. Mostly I think he wants to take things because he thinks it will bother me. There are very few items that belong to "us" that I want to hang on to. I'm keeping "the kids" and some other stuff I brought into the relationship.