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Since we're on the topic of kids and adolescence and stuff, I just want to give you guys my perspective.
It isn't your fault.
We don't want to hurt you, but these moods come on us, and we lash out.
We regret it with our whole beings afterwards.
We say things that hurt you a lot, because we don't realize how much it damages our relationships.
We are beginning to feel emotions we haven't felt before, but we don't know how to deal with them.

I had a really awful fight with my mom this morning.
I hurt her a lot, and I wish I could restart today and take it all back.
While I'm in the middle of it, I don't see that I'm doing anything wrong, and I think it's all her fault, but it isn't. It's mine. I don't understand what comes over me. I pretty much entirely lose my grip on my self control, and say whatever pops into my head. It leaves both of us hurting afterwards. I didn't mean what I said, but that doesn't make it any less hurtful to her. I'm crying right now, not because of the things she said, but because of how much I've hurt her. We don't want to hurt you.
 
@Rubysword :hugs
Thanks for the insight. What means the most to me after a disagreement is when my son comes and apologizes. I can give him a warm hug and reassure that I still love him. I mess up a lot myself and I always apologize and ask for forgiveness from my son. I am not prefect and I know that he is not either, but we are on the same side.
One time he did let me know that words come out and he couldn’t help it. That is something I can work with. It will be okay. Just be open with your mom. She loves you.
 
I don't ever remember fighting with my parents. Of course they both worked a lot. I do wish i had been able to talk to my Dad again before he died. I really regret that we were in the middle of a move and i couldn't be there for his surgery.
 
Sassysouth said:
Did we decide if I need to treat them?
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Could it just be shed intestinal lining? I hear that is normal but haven't seen it in person yet

ETA: just read shed lining CAN be a sign of an underlying condition :he

This is why I don't give health advice :oops:
 
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