Her behavior coupled with a few comments she made about their adopted daughter explain why the daughter doesn't spend ANY time with them.
This morning my hubs started to get on my puppy for eating the other puppy's food.
I kinda chewed his arse.
I let him know that in this house food will never be denied for any reason.
If my puppy is hungry and prefers that brand of food I will buy both adult and puppy in that brand.
I definitely feel like no one should EVER be made feel bad for eating.
My background regarding food is ugly. My childhood was spent very hungry. To this day I have food issues. Not overeating issues but storing/overstocking behaviors.
It makes me more sensitive to ride comments maybe.