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rjohns39 said:
Ok folks I'm a bit irritated at family. Apparently my grandfather was in a car accident a couple weeks ago. He passed. They scheduled the wake for yesterday and the funeral today. How on earth could I make it? He adopted my parents before I was born so that I could carry on his name. My eldest grandson probably hates us as we've had no access to him since he was three. My other grandson has MD and most likely won't out live me. I feel like I've totally failed him.
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Family is complicated at best. :hugs

I am very sorry for all you are going through and for your loss. :hugs
 
rjohns39 said:
Ok folks I'm a bit irritated at family. Apparently my grandfather was in a car accident a couple weeks ago. He passed. They scheduled the wake for yesterday and the funeral today. How on earth could I make it? He adopted my parents before I was born so that I could carry on his name. My eldest grandson probably hates us as we've had no access to him since he was three. My other grandson has MD and most likely won't out live me. I feel like I've totally failed him.
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:barnie:hugs:hugs:hugs
 
rjohns39 said:
Ok folks I'm a bit irritated at family. Apparently my grandfather was in a car accident a couple weeks ago. He passed. They scheduled the wake for yesterday and the funeral today. How on earth could I make it? He adopted my parents before I was born so that I could carry on his name. My eldest grandson probably hates us as we've had no access to him since he was three. My other grandson has MD and most likely won't out live me. I feel like I've totally failed him.
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:hugs
 
rjohns39 said:
Ok folks I'm a bit irritated at family. Apparently my grandfather was in a car accident a couple weeks ago. He passed. They scheduled the wake for yesterday and the funeral today. How on earth could I make it? He adopted my parents before I was born so that I could carry on his name. My eldest grandson probably hates us as we've had no access to him since he was three. My other grandson has MD and most likely won't out live me. I feel like I've totally failed him.
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Now you know you haven't failed him, i'd imagine he'd be upset at you even thinking you have.:hugs
 
rjohns39 said:
Ok folks I'm a bit irritated at family. Apparently my grandfather was in a car accident a couple weeks ago. He passed. They scheduled the wake for yesterday and the funeral today. How on earth could I make it? He adopted my parents before I was born so that I could carry on his name. My eldest grandson probably hates us as we've had no access to him since he was three. My other grandson has MD and most likely won't out live me. I feel like I've totally failed him.
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You haven't failed him. You have done the best you can with what you have.

As for the grandson that "probably hates you" I can tell you that I am not remotely close to my dads side of the family. We only ever saw them at holidays and even then us grandchildren were a nuisance not a joy.
My point is that I don't hate any of them. I don't have a relationship with them and that is all there is to it. I don't wish them ill or anything bad. We sometimes have contact and that's fine. But just because you aren't close doesn't mean you hate.
 
Redhead Rae said:
I just got back from a ladder to windows tour of the house. My bathtub looks really nice and deep. Deeper than my mom's tub!:yesss:
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I had to check out the house.
So your house company keeps showing up in my FB :gig


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rjohns39 said:
Ok folks I'm a bit irritated at family. Apparently my grandfather was in a car accident a couple weeks ago. He passed. They scheduled the wake for yesterday and the funeral today. How on earth could I make it? He adopted my parents before I was born so that I could carry on his name. My eldest grandson probably hates us as we've had no access to him since he was three. My other grandson has MD and most likely won't out live me. I feel like I've totally failed him.
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It's not your fault!
 

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