You're coming across just fine. There are jobs that naturally require better character, and decision making from their employees, whether the employers demand it, and employ stricter standards, or not. Those employed by schools, is one such job. Being a "super star/role model" is another area that naturally requires better character, and decision making. The standards used to be pretty high, strict, and enforced. Some employers offering these type jobs even demanded a morals clause be adhered to by their employees.
Over time, those standards have become lax. Background checks were not properly run. Former employers became hesitant about disclosing immoral conduct to new employers. Morals clauses were not enforced, and/or eventually done away with entirely. It didn't happen all at once, so there was a stark contrast. It happened gradually, over time.
As a result, far too many schools are employing perverts, druggies, alcoholics, etc. Thus the type of ludicrous questionnaire that Fishy was given to answer. Thus Miley Cyrus twerking for our kids, indecently attired, and teaching them how to twerk, claiming this is what everyone should be doing. Thus criminal athletes, that kids look up to as role models, are showing them that it's ok to be criminals, if they're rich, and famous.
Immorality, a lack of character, and ethics don't have to be taught, or exploited. They find a way. Morals, ethics, and good character need to be taught, and enforced. They're harder to accomplish. It's easier to go down, than to climb up.