Oh the pondering just won't stop! I went to the training class, chatted with the trainer, and I'm still confused on what I think is best.
Assuming the dog doesn't show aggression, I'm confident I could work with her. I'm just concerned about the kid's and dog's safety.
The trainer suggested asking for a trial period. Gave me some pointers on behavior to watch for when I meet her. Also some suggestions on how I should act to help feel her out. She explained some stuff about her class too.
Lots to think about...
Strange fact about her. She won't eat good quality food. Turns her nose at it. He mentioned 4 brands (including the one we use) he tried and she won't eat them.