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Sorry to hear this, it’s always hard having petsharder when they have to be rehomed.
I am sorry to hear about Ginger. But, think of this - if she was still with you, probably Inky wouldn't be. You did what was best for your flock overall. I know it was hard at the time for you to rehome her, and you loved her, so it is human nature to second guess yourself - but don't.
If your friend is close enough could you go over and check out Ginger, and maybe try feeding a bit of coconut oil and massaging her crop...showing your friend how to do it??? (hopefully it isn't too late...but a number of people have had success with this.)
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What bgmathteach posted is totally correct regarding you did what was best for your flock as a whole. If it is indeed sour crop maybe it isn’t too late to treat with “yeast infection” cream. There are lots of threads in how to do that in the emergency/illness section.
Thank you all for the comforting words.I cannot imagine how you feel. The only chickens I have ever given up were Ned & Lucky. I knew they were going to a good home. Lucky has since moved on again.
I steeled myself that once I said goodbye, I was saying goodbye. I was doing the best I could for them.
One or the other of Ginger or Inky could not stay. You faced a true Sophie's choice. You made the decision that was in the best interest of your flock. You found Ginger the best home you could. The bullying ended and your flock was at peace. All of this is true.
I know it certainly does not make it easier but it is true. We can only do our best. Frequently, it simply is not enough.
We all have to live with these choices. I'm so sorry the outcome is not as you would have wished.![]()
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My friend lives pretty close. I feel like I will need to take Ginger back to give her proper care though. I went to her house on Friday and I did not see Ginger. In retrospect, I am afraid she was already ill (so hiding underneath somewhere) at that time.
My friend is taking care of her too. I kinda want to take Ginger back but there are many other concerns associated with this action.
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