Well I am not much better, and having roosters look so much different than the hens is confusing too.
Thanks.
Just to add to the confusion, some breeds they look VERY different, and some breeds they look very similar. Mostly the hackle/saddle feathers are the easy identifiers. Roos feathers are long and pointy, hens are shorter, wider, and rounded.....except for breeds like Campines where the roos are "hen-feathered". Roos also typically have longer/curving tail feathers while the hens are short and mostly straight (Cochins being an exception).
Silver is a good example to start with as there is such a contrast with her feathers. Note the width of her white edged tail feathers and the short length of the ones around her neck.
Storm's show nicely too with the darker edge.
To contrast, the cascade around the neck and between the wing and tail, not to mention the curve of the tail feathers even though they aren't reaching past the shorter support tail feathers.
@RoyalChick looking at this pic of Kren, I realized he's got duckwing.
Horus demonstrates the pointiness well, too. Also the rusty red shoulders doesn't usually show up on hens.
A few more to peruse
I know Nellie was moulting, but it does magnify the shape of the feathers VERY well.