Good morning friends!
HAPPY WINTER SOLSTICE!
May we all be buried in eggs very soon.
Today's the day to pull myself together. But first...
I'm gonna step up here on my little box in my nightgown and my crying sweater and be like the teacher at Sunday school, then, I am going to limit my participation today (if I can), in an attempt to pull myself up by the bootstraps to avoid hating myself later for stepping in the quicksand of holiday depression. One never knows if it's a half inch puddle or a raging river.
Please remember to be gentle to those you know and those you don't. I don't really have to tell any of the OSW's that, I know, because being nice is one of our common characteristics but nonetheless I'm throwing out a review.
The holidays, while meant to be all COMFORT AND JOY,
do not affect everyone in that way.
On the road? STAY CALM.
Be prepared to wait. PEE FIRST, but bring a drink, an emergency snack, some Tylenol and your phone charger. Wear layers.
Comfortable shoes.
Underpants that don't give you a wedgie!
Your going to be waiting in traffic. Waiting for a parking spot. Waiting in line...
This is an exercise in patience. Take the time to think good thoughts about people and rack up some karma points.
People don't need to be hated on or cussed at 4way stops (some never grasp the rules on this) or
in parking lots either.
Never shout, "OMG *******what is WRONG with you?!?"
Because Lordy, if you did that to me right now, you better pray to the DEPENDS GOD to be wearing one of their extra absorbent diapers because I'm gonna LEAP,
as in "LORDS A LEAPING" leap, in front of your vehicle with my knees within millimeters of your front bumper and I'm going to enlighten you.
I'll stand there like a crazy person and go down my list- which is long -until you either run out of gas or call the cops on me.
You are NEVER gonna get to Home Goods or Dicks or wherever because if you tip me over that edge, YOU WILL NOT, make it to your nail appointment, or be picking up your HEAVENLY HAM before they close because I will still be standing there.
Worry weighs a ton I can personally tell you.
So does loss, which is an invisible wound, and it's heavy as hell. There's all kinds of loss people may be carrying around right now. Job, house, insurance, friendship,pregnancy, marriage, partner, child....
*If you need help or know someone who does,
please call 1-800-273-8255
(Hit 1 if you are a veteran)
This is the National Suicide Prevention Hotline.
They are open 24/7/365
They also have online chat for those who are more comfortable communicating that way.
Pass it on. Save a life.