My sister advised us to not get the shots on the same day so at least one of us could function in case we had side effects, but for us getting the shot however we could was more important. DH qualified before me, but we ended up getting appointments only 4 days apart, he got Moderna at a pharmacy, I got the Pfizer at a NY state "mass vaccination" site. 1st shot for both of us was mild, a sore arm and tired for about a day for him, 3 days for me. Then we got our second shots 3 days apart.
2nd shot I woke up the next day and an old shoulder injury was hurting, it hadn't hurt in a long time and I hadn't even moved yet. It was in the opposite side from the jab by the way, not related to that. Some chills and maybe fever that night, then I felt really wiped out for a week or so, but for another ten days to two weeks I lived in a very strange cloud. It was an intermittent forgetful brain fog coupled with fatigue, and a headache kept at bay by drinking at least twice as much fluids as normal for me. Mentally this was very different from what is called "chemo brain," and something was very sneaky about it. I was and wasn't "me". At times I would snap out of it and realize I'd been sort of functioning but in another world and at 30% brain power. If that was a taste of what Covid could be like it's terrible.
I think this contributed to Queenie's death as I was not on top of things in that third week after the shot. Did I hear a warning call? I think I could have heard a quick sound and then nothing more and so didn't act on it. Was that it? I can't really remember well.
DH claimed he didn't feel much side effects from his 2nd shot. But he was doing wacky, forgetful things, which he didn't notice, and at one point
he claimed he was out of shape for standing, a claim he has never, ever made before, in 40+ years together.

He could not be convinced any of this was a vaccine effect.
Chicken tax, beloved Queenie, RIP

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