Thanks Marie, I have found given a chance most people are decent. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt at least twice!
I say twice but it's usually 3 times then they have had it their chips with me, not all but the majority of those kind of people
Yes there are more good people than bad and some have their off days but in the end they can come around and be caring through the bad times. I understand their are physical and mental issues and their mood swings can have an affect on their behaviour. In saying that I can't take all people that are antisocial
People that lack empathy very cold selfish and manipulative they are a no no in my life.
The old me would give them non stop chances today I keep my distance and let them know I've have had it with them and to keep well away from me
I'm saying all of above because I've had on going disturbances such as my sleep being broken at 3am for months on end plus having foul smoke penetrating my home, my neighbours have had that smoke to.
This became an issue for me big time when it seriously started too affect my dog during his illness. Several times I tried to reason with this person as it was sickening too me but imagine how bad it is for a dog trying to breathe...
Agatha spent her last few days here with that odour. This same person verbally attacked me 3 times over the past 4 years once complaining about my running my tap when it was a neighbours home that at that time had boiler and pipe problems. He howled at me for months and didn't apologise when he found out it wasn't my home at all...
The last time was the night before flexi died. Believe me that was the last time he'll ever have that opportunity of my being a caring neighbour to him.
There are times like it or not you have to stand your ground. So I told this person how cold selfish and childish they were. They threw a bunch of lies at me, repeating what they had said about a previous person that lived here, so now I believe that those complaints were highly likely too be as untrue as the accusations he made against me
There was something good that came from this last outrage of his, that smoke is much less and he hasn't woken me up once since. But I'm still very wary of how volatile person is and I'm concerned he could be potentially dangerous. The fact of no apology for every wrong attack makes me worry
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