An update......
Hubs timed the muffin pop in with the bosses arrival back from his doctors appointment. Yup we did the pop in no call thing.
The muffins were a hit and she ate one. I count that as a win because she has been hardly eating a thing.
We stayed about an hour visiting and I was able to gently gain bits of info.
While we were there a cleaning crew came to clean the house. Also good as apparently she had fallen before while trying to clean the bathroom and had to wait for help.
She is willing to have me come visit a few times a week. I told her I will bring snacks each time for her. Obviously she cannot be trying to cook so I am concerned about her nutrition.
It is an added thing to my already busy schedule but that is ok. Chores here can always wait a bit. I don't like her being home alone in her condition.
Hubs and I took the bikes for a nice ride after we left. It is nice out but very smoky due to wildfires on the mountains.